ADHD Counselling in Kelowna, BC

A compassionate, practical approach to focus, overwhelm, and emotional regulation

If you’re looking for ADHD counselling, you might be wondering:

Do I really have ADHD — or am I just disorganized?
Why can I focus on some things but not others?
Why does everything feel so overwhelming?
Why do I struggle with motivation even when I care deeply?
Can therapy even help ADHD?

If any of that sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

ADHD is not a character flaw. It’s not laziness. And it’s not a lack of intelligence or discipline. It’s a neurodevelopmental difference that affects attention, executive functioning, and emotional regulation.

And yes — counselling can help.

  • ADHD doesn’t always look like hyperactivity.

    In teens and adults, it often shows up as:

    • Difficulty starting or finishing tasks

    • Chronic procrastination

    • Losing track of time

    • Emotional intensity or quick frustration

    • Forgetting appointments or details

    • Trouble organizing or prioritizing

    • Feeling constantly overwhelmed

    • Burnout from masking or overcompensating

    Many clients I see are high-achieving, thoughtful, capable people who feel secretly exhausted trying to “keep up.”

    ADHD can be especially missed in women and girls, or in people who learned to mask early.

  • You do not.

    Some clients come to me with a formal ADHD diagnosis. Others are exploring whether ADHD might be part of the picture.

    Therapy can help you:

    • Understand your patterns

    • Explore whether assessment might be helpful

    • Develop practical strategies

    • Reduce shame and self-criticism

    • Improve emotional regulation

    If you decide to pursue formal assessment, I can guide you toward appropriate referrals in British Columbia.

  • We work on tools — but we also work on the internal experience of living with ADHD.

    Therapy may include:

    • Executive functioning strategies

    • Time awareness and planning systems

    • Breaking tasks into manageable steps

    • Reducing avoidance cycles

    • Emotional regulation skills

    • Nervous system stabilization

    • Values-based goal setting

    • Addressing perfectionism and burnout

    ADHD isn’t just about attention. It’s about regulation.

    Many clients discover that what looks like procrastination is actually anxiety, overwhelm, or fear of failure.

    We untangle that gently.

  • Yes.

    Medication can help with focus and impulse control. Therapy supports:

    • Building sustainable systems

    • Reducing shame

    • Managing emotional dysregulation

    • Addressing relationship strain

    • Developing realistic expectations

    Medication and therapy often complement each other well.

  • ADHD affects more than attention — it affects the brain’s regulation systems.

    Many people with ADHD experience:

    • Rejection sensitivity

    • Emotional intensity

    • Rapid mood shifts

    • Shame after missed deadlines

    • Cycles of overcommitment and burnout

    When executive functioning is taxed, the nervous system can feel constantly activated.

    Part of our work involves building self-compassion alongside skill development.

    You are not “too much.”
    You are not broken.
    Your brain just works differently.

  • ADHD work is highly individualized.

    Some clients come for short-term, skills-focused support. Others choose longer-term therapy to address identity, burnout, trauma, or relational impacts.

    There isn’t one timeline. What matters is building tools that feel sustainable in your real life — not just during a motivated week.

ADHD Counselling FAQ

Can therapy cure ADHD?
ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition, not something to “cure.” Therapy helps you understand your brain, build skills, and reduce distress.

Is ADHD just bad time management?
No. ADHD affects executive functioning — including task initiation, working memory, and regulation — not intelligence or effort.

Can adults have ADHD even if they weren’t diagnosed as kids?
Yes. Many adults are diagnosed later in life, especially women and people who masked symptoms.

Does ADHD counselling help with procrastination?
Yes. We address both practical systems and the emotional drivers behind avoidance.

ADHD Counselling at Nutbrown Counselling

In my Kelowna practice, ADHD counselling is:

  • Trauma-informed

  • Practical and strategy-based

  • Compassion-focused

  • Grounded in nervous system regulation

  • Values-oriented

We don’t just build planners.
We build self-trust.

Whether you’re newly diagnosed, questioning, or just tired of feeling behind, therapy can help you feel more steady and capable.

Who I Work With

I support:

  • Teens navigating school and overwhelm

  • Adults balancing work, relationships, and burnout

  • Helping professionals managing invisible cognitive load

  • High-achievers who feel like they’re barely holding it together

Sessions are available in-person in Kelowna, BC and virtually across British Columbia and Alberta.